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 Kate takes on the role of a crucial intermediary — a fitting position for a goddess of boundaries and crossroads a testament to Kate's "critical mediating function" in the pantheon.  

Kate Oliver specializes in working with divergent relationships in lifestyle, kink and difference gendered communities.  She's sailing relationships in deep ocean waters! They do say that "stormy seas make the best sailors"; so whether you feel stuck in a routine, you want to address a particular sex related concern or you simply wish to explore ways to achieve intimacy,  having her professional and supportive guidance gives you more confidence in your relationships as you learn to sail your own ships into emotional, sensual, and erotic clarity.

 She is improving the world’s understanding and education about sex by speaking on the MON platform so sex leaders and people of wisdom from around the world have a reliable sexuality self-help resource library and anonymous chat room for all who are curious or confused.

 She hopes to create a roar among many authentic sexually empowered people who communicate their emotions, intentions, boundaries, and vulnerabilities in a world where lifestyle, kink, and poly-coupling is understood, accepted, and repaired within a sex-positive society rather than the isolated, rejected, and humiliated path that's been experienced.

Kate enjoys helping others bring intimacy to a variety of relationships from the vanilla mainstream to the depths of imagination and creativity.  Learning from non-traditional lifestyles and subcultures you can develop the intimate life you’ve always wanted.  

People are more strikingly present with Kate than anywhere else in Therapy; together as active agents, be busily engaged in all spheres of the human endeavor together.   

Great singers hire singing coaches, great athletes hire personal trainers, and those who have a desire to dive deep and explore to enhance aspects of their intimate lives – well, she's the one to hire.  Amazing individuals from around the world learn to communicate better, clear up misunderstandings, and resolve ongoing conflicts with themselves.   Once their rational and relational needs are authentically seen, they go from feeling ignored to being adored  and enjoy genuine intimacy.

• This coaching promotes living a more authentic and balanced life of self-honoring, acceptance, and healthy boundary formation.  I love teaching how to accept our fantasy side, clearly ask for desires and cravings, gain & respect consent, and be responsible for our own pleasure practice while in a safe, collaborative, and compassionate environment.  I center my focus and intuition on your desired goal while holding safe space for vulnerability when details surface.

Kate’s creative, whole person healing approach through Nude Therapy and Erotic Management will clarify your desires, help communicate your intentions, resolve internal struggle and finally discover how to  meet your own needs.

Kate encourages you to drop into pleasure and allows you the space to come home and embrace your sexuality as creative erotic energy, acknowledging your shadow side and allowing creativity to surface. 

 Discover your Authenticity, Self-Intimacy, Eroticism and Passion in less than 6 sessions.

"Be too brave to lie,

 and too generous to cheat."

 "If you can’t be kind, be vague."

"Be good or be careful"

"It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to be kind to others. " 

"And so, even now, whenever men pray or make sacrifice, they invoke Hekate by whose will success is granted or denied."

"Ultimately, we uncover our sexual value that's been hidden under shame and judgement, by normalizing the conversations about sex, sexual health, self-care and intimacy in relationships we find acceptance.” 

 Got a question? 

 Kate is teaching skills used both in and outside the bedroom. Her goal is to normalize talking about sex so that people are more comfortable to ask for what they want and can speak up to tell someone when they’re feeling unsafe! 

 You can anonymously submit your questions to us here or in the Discord chatroom.

"Sex deserves more than just a single conversation, so talking about sex(uality) all day is what I do!  Our time together may become one of your greatest experiences in learning.  Get in touch!  " -Kate Oliver